Wednesday, November 4, 2009 4:50 PM
(saw this on samson's blog; it's a comment he took it from stomp):
My gf left me... yeah i lied to her, make empty promises and i did not give her that sense of security nor treasure her like what i did in the beginning of our r.s..wiill rather play game or sleep than to hear her cries... her heart completely went dead...
stopped contacting for a few mths, not even a simple sms.. knew shes dating again.. then slowly all the guilt and regrets creeps on me.. like ghost haunting me draining my soul away..so mad at myself for giving up such a great r.s and a great ger.. then somehow i started to change.. slowly.. no longer do "harmless flirting" start to pay more attention to people around me..
met her again recently.. somehow after a big roundbout we are back together.. i felt that i understand her needs more and im more mindful of her feelings..will also do little things now and then so that she feels happy and once awhile bring her to romantic places to hav a little chat.. will nv lie to her again and determined to build up the trust in her again..
therefore.. what i wana tell u is.. you must really let him reflect upon himself.. while u carry on with ur life and be happy.. and if his yours he will be back a better man.. a short time frame won't work.. he prolly will be lying...and if u really see some improvment in him after some time please give him more time and observe him before you make a decision again.. it really need a big deal of time and effort to change.. and if you are giving him another chance again.. make sure he knows that not everyone will get a 2nd chance in life...Link
